Some Americans have started questioning the traditional dream to land a secure job, get married, have 2.5 kids and buy a house. We’ve moved away from the community-driven villages of yesteryears in the pursuit of independence and success.

What if we could return to a community where neighbors looked out for one another? Where the domestic and emotional weight of living life was shared?

Cohousing communities seek to remedy these problems by reinventing the way we think about housing.

First, this housing trend looks to neighborhood design to create shared spaces that fosters an authentic sense of community. Cohousing architects utilize shared pathways to shared sites to encourage interaction (Williams, 2005). Something as simple as opting to place car parking on the edges of the community forces neighbors to walk by one another each day (Williams, 2005).

Countries, states and communities that have committed to this model have started seeing positive results. In fact, research shows these natural social interactions “build trust between residents” and creates a stronger sense of connectedness (Williams, 2005). This exchange strengthens social capital within the community, which leads to lower crime rates, improved health and better relationship to local government (Williams, 2005).

Second, this neighborhood design recognizes the benefits of sharing and depending on others, while maintaining the importance of ownership and independence. One type of cohousing units is called a pocket neighborhood (Henderson, 2011). These communities are often built of independent, private dwellings for the family unit and contain shared spaces such as a community house, where neighbor can gather and foster relationships.

Cohousing neighborhoods are poised to start picking up steam in Springfield.

Earlier this year, Springfield City Council approved a proposal to develop a “pocket neighborhood” on the east side of town with construction to begin in spring (Abreu, 2017). In addition, just last week, Springfield received its first tiny home to be a part of the Eden Village, a planned neighborhood created by the Gathering Tree for chronically homeless people (Gurney, 2017).

Journalist Courtney Martin discussed this shift in the American Dream in her 2016 TedTalk, sharing her experiences in a cohousing community.

“The ‘new better off,’ as I've come to call it, is less about investing in the perfect family and more about investing in the imperfect village, whether that's relatives living under one roof, a cohousing community like mine, or just a bunch of neighbors who pledge to really know and look out for one another.”

While cohousing may not be the right choice for everyone, we all have the ability to stop, slow down and get to know our neighbors. If each person strives for intentional hospitality, the return to the “imperfect village” may be in our reach.

1. I want to say yes more often. I want my practical early to bed early to rise nature to take a step to the side every once in a while in order to say yes to invitations to share in a meal, a drink, some Andy’s, or just a walk.
2. I want more adventure. In our bedroom, we have this cool wall hanging that spells the word ADVENTURE. There are so many amazing places just in Missouri that I haven’t explored. Nature is therapy to me. I need more of it. Even if no one wants to go with me or no one is available to hike on a Wednesday morning in the summer, I am going to. I started a summer adventure list and everything.

This pretty much sums it up. I think these two goals can be summed up by saying that I want to be more present. I am such a big planner. I actually love planning. But part of my planning for the next decade is going to include intentional adventures to experience new things with new people and old friends. At the same time, I don’t want my planning nature to get in the way of the beauty of life that spontaneity creates. Will you join me? Let’s go on an adventure.

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